Premarital sex or also known as fornication in older term refers to individuals of different gender performing sexual intercourse before their marriage. This issue have been discussed and debated among the communities since a long time ago.
The issue that is being debated among the society in older days regarding premarital sex is mainly about the the importance of maintaing the virginity of the female for their future husbands. I personally thinks that is merely a statement which praise for male chauvinism. I think they should be questioning whether the male is still a virgin or not and not only focusing on the women.
In my opinion, I personally do not think that premarital sex is a crime or something immorality, but I also do not praise for promiscuity. The only thing that should be taken care of regarding this issue is not about faith, religions and something like that because I think that discussing the issue of religion in this 21st century is not a wise thing to do since people in this century is smart enough to twist the teachings of God or use the name of God for their own wild desires. A few things I think do matter in this issue is the willingness between both parties, safety measures taken and knowing the consequences of any accidents happened for their own decision including premarital pregnancy, venereal disease and other issue.
The society should focused on educating the young generation from psychological and mental aspect. The society should instill positive thinking to the youngsters about the issue of respecting their partners, how to protect themselves in terms of thinking and physically. Listening to the view and opinion of the younger ones and correcting their thinking before it is too late. I think that merely restraining the young generation using pure force and law restriction will only caused them to rebel in a stronger way. Thus, even if they are hurt by their own decision, many of them didn't manage to recover or understand the right thinking because they have no one to teach them how to dealt with this issue. What they understand is just mere opposition from the society but they don't know why.
The above comments only represents my own perspective view. Welcome for any suggestion or comment.
posted by Tor Hooi Xing
Monday, March 15, 2010
Topic: Premarital Sex
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In this new era, premarital sex is nothing special. For some youngster, it even not an issue to be seriously treated. So, I agree that education is the part to be focused on. Particularly, knowledge about contraception.
ReplyDeletei strongly agree with you in this. Education and guidance for the young generation in this aspect is important.Human sexuality must be related to moral values. The biggest problem among the youngsters today is not a lack of education about sex, but a lack of moral education about sex.
ReplyDeleteGood! Everyone agrees to that.^^ I'm so afraid I would see some comment that says objection to premarital sex because my parents didn't agrees to it. And one thing I forget to mentioned in the article is the independant of our own thoughts and thinking, don't easily be influenced by our partner who threaten us to performed sexual intercourse as a prove of love. Especially women should be extra wise if they consider giving in when their partner made this request.
ReplyDeleteEducates the mind and approach the important value of morality logic. That should create a strong principle for education about sex.
ReplyDeleteI agree with all of yours' points. Parent should educate their children from their childhood so that their children will think before they take an action. This will prevent cases like teenagers marry in a young age or been force to abort their child.
ReplyDeleteya.SEX education is very important to the youngster nowadays,i read a article about a 16 years old girl that even pay a guy to lose her virginity.because she think that only a NON Virgin only can be a new 21th century generation girl.so we must help thous who are lost in the way they thinking.
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